Indeed. My wife and I tried to say, “Yes” more than “No” and ‘expected’ (age being a big consideration) to make decisions for themselves. Sometimes with a little guidance. I also realize we were very lucky in a lotta ways.
Mine were. I didn’t have any serious complaints. They got good grades, held part-time jobs, didn’t smoke, drink or get in a family way (or get anyone in….), so you’ve just got to know how to approach them.
Aaaah …. no. It’s just a start.