My family is still unclear on what I do. Something techincal, they think. I tell my nieces and nephews that I’m the guy their IT department calls when they’re stuck for answers.
I remember the panic among teachers and parents when one of my nephews invited his older brother (also a nephew, obviously) to a career day event. The older brother was an active duty Marine. A blizzard of emails went back and forth among the snowflakes afraid that fine example of American youth might bring a weapon to the school or having a member of the military might send the wrong message. He was allowed to speak after the parents were assured there would be no weapons. Instead he spoke to the students about the history of the Marine Corps, what it takes to succeed in any field (brains, hard work and discipline) and pointed out that a military career is not for everyone. But asked that they please give it consideration.
Yes, I do remember that. And I miss those days. Of course there were exceptions when it was perfectly acceptable to discuss one of those topics at respective gatherings: Politics at Conventions; Religion at Church groups; Sex –at Orgies
To show the futility of they / them as a gender neutral pronoun I copied a chapter from one of my novels and replaced he or she with they and gave it to people to read. Very confusing even I couldn’t follow what was gong on.
Mermaids tried to broker a peace in the GFWs.