When I was a kid, we had nightmare neighbors. Domestic violence, stealing, vandalism, police coming all the time. The day they moved, all the neighbors put out their American flag like it was a holiday.
True story: my ex husband was arrested and had to call me because mine was the only number he remembered from memory. I was kind and contacted his sister for him.
I discovered that it was the tonic I hated and not the gin when someone made me a gin and 7-Up.