A grandfather’s love is absolute. His attachment to you & vice versa, was a special tie that enabled him to know what you could not, and were not permitted, to tell him. Rest in the assurance that he is at peace and you’ll have the fond memories of him & you together, for the rest of your life. Also, be bothered not, by what others think. You chose your path – stay the course!
No idea – too far away to tell!