I think our Sophie is right on schedule in her processing of heartache. Soon she will be wondering what she ever saw in that cad, Wesley. Time for a cheesy Hallmark movie!
Sending lots of virtual hugs and vibes your way, as well as a suggestion. I had very painful medial tunnel pain in both arms for a number of years. Like carpal tunnel but further up the forearm. I worked with our county’s ergonomics specialist and ended up using a split keyboard (which I loved), a touchpad instead of a mouse for my dominant hand (I even bought one for home use), and a trackball for my non-dominant hand. I didn’t have to grip anything, I just let my index finger swoop over the touchpad. Surgery helped, myofascial release massage was a lifesaver, but those devices kept me going until I retired. My desk space was so specialized none of my coworkers would touch it! (Shared workspace)
I love good news like that. Congratulations all around!