VermilionSparrow, tell your mom that the best she’ll get is to move into your home, or else an upscale assisted-living facility (or whatever level of care she needs). Being the only married daughter of a stroke victim (now bedridden), I can’t take care of Mom in her home, and take care of my hubby & kids, too. My widowed sister moved in with Mom, and provides the full-time caregiving, or else Mom would have had to go into a facility of some kind.
VermilionSparrow, tell your mom that the best she’ll get is to move into your home, or else an upscale assisted-living facility (or whatever level of care she needs). Being the only married daughter of a stroke victim (now bedridden), I can’t take care of Mom in her home, and take care of my hubby & kids, too. My widowed sister moved in with Mom, and provides the full-time caregiving, or else Mom would have had to go into a facility of some kind.