Truth to tell, I think you would be hard pressed to find a dozen people who have literally NEVER used that word in some capacity. As a kid, as part of a joke, in conversation about the word itself, or in relating a story about someone else using the word. That fact alone is not what makes someone a racist. Actions really do speak louder than words. Don Juan is unquestionably a racist, along with his many other undesirable qualities.
Truth to tell, I think you would be hard pressed to find a dozen people who have literally NEVER used that word in some capacity. As a kid, as part of a joke, in conversation about the word itself, or in relating a story about someone else using the word. That fact alone is not what makes someone a racist. Actions really do speak louder than words. Don Juan is unquestionably a racist, along with his many other undesirable qualities.